I find no dishonour when a
fellow human being takes the extreme measure and removes themselves from
existence. What ever weight was upon their shoulders or cloud that surrounded
their brain, to them there was no other choice but to take their own life. I
feel that the inability to communicate the struggle they were in is part of it.
Perhaps pride and being a brave and strong person on the outside is a cover to
protect the frightened and overwhelmed soul which is on the inside.
Whatever the case may be, the
person taking their own life is a victim... a victim of a mental illness and
they succumb to that illness. All over the world people take this measure to
bring on what they feel is relief, happiness and to apparently remove the perceived
stress from others. The illness which has taken the lives of some of my friends
and other more well know people like Robin Williams cannot be ignored.
Soldiers from any military
force take their lives due to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or Shell Shock.
They are unable to cope with life in the civilian world. It is not a problem
that is easily recognized even by professionals but it is an illness that needs
to be addressed. Statistics show that 40% of transgender people take their
lives as a result of not being able to get the help they seek and none of this
is acceptable.
I was at that point a number of years ago but I also knew all to well that this option was not for me. I battled the disease, the mental illness and overcame the stress and removed the cloud from my mind. I am grateful for those that took the time to listen.
I find no dishonour in suicide, it is an individual choice and I sincerely hope that those that take this step have found what they were looking for... no longer in pain and existing in peace.
Be well...
Thoughtful and thought provoking as always my friend
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